Out there in today's society, there is an entire generation of men haters - women who hold intrinsic resentment toward men of any kind or race. Kind as in single, married, divorced, virgins, jocks, players, or even a nice guys, and race as in Black, white, Mexican, Italian, Jewish, Arabian, or Asian.

The "men hater's club" categorize all men as insensitive, self-centered, inconsiderate, childish dogs. And these descriptions are not exaggerated; in fact, they are subcategories of more disgusting descriptions, yet regardless of the category, these women will probably never give another man the satisfaction of anything but misery.

The reason these women are so bitter is that they have been hurt once very deeply or one time too many. They are meeting men who do not live up to their standards and who did not meet their expectations. Many have been hurt or betrayed by their fathers, brothers, or uncles, and many have had horrid, embarrassing experiences with men who may have raped them, abused them, cheated on them, or lied to them after they have devoted sacred portions of their heart and soul to them. And rightly so, these actions breed animosity from the victim's for years to come.

The problem is that once a woman has experienced such trauma caused by a man, they tend to hold anger toward all men while making the prime suspect's life as miserable as possible. No other man has a reasonable chance to win a woman's affection if she belongs to the "men hater's club." She will put that man through the ringer even before she shows the slightest bit of sincerity. He must prove to her in a multitude of ways that he is different, and this is where men have a real disadvantage. How does a man prove that he is different from other men, at least the men in the cells of her prison?

There is no sure, right, or scientifically proven way to do this. No man should ever try to prove he is different because he will most surely put up some type of front and will be found out, and once that happens, he's now on her list of most hated men. What a man should do is be himself at all times. Unfortunately, if he is naturally an insensitive jerk, egotistical, childish player, he gets exactly what is coming to him. But if he is a decent person overall, he has a better chance at reaching the walkway that leads to the steel doors, which opens through to the 90 foot wall around her heart and mind.

It really is sad that more and more women have joined the "men hater's club." Men cannot afford to live in this world with most of the women behind large walls. After awhile, men will be left out to fend for themselves when it comes to getting any affection. Before they know it, women will be so hostile against them, not more, but all of them will begin to treat men the way most men have treated women; as sex objects, punching bags, slabs of meat, and empty shells of a human being.

To all the women out there who are behind the wall and who have begin to lay the foundation; if you open up your heart to God so he can tear down the wall, it would open the door for the right man to walk in. God will make sure of it.

© 2003 by Cartel Q